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be·come

verb

1. Begin to be

Holding Space Through Transition

We are all constantly changing, navigating transition, becoming more or less of who we are. This is the nature of life: to begin as one thing and become another, to start as one thing and end up something different altogether—over and over and over.

Tending Becomings is a project of care—created by Myles (they/he)—rooted in offering support to people navigating transitions of birth, death and the space between—especially marginalized folks who have been historically and intentionally excluded from care spaces and services. Through this project I offer nonmedical emotional, educational, practical and physical support as a doula to folks experiencing a transition. I also make zines that are available to download for free (digital) or buy (physical copy).

My offerings are open to everyone but center and prioritize Queer and Trans Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (QTBIPOC), as well as other marginalized communities.

Doula Care

Care In Times of Transition

Zines

Zines

All zines are sliding scale starting at free

56 page workbook zine for care planning, exploring your needs, and creating ideas of support you could use. Sliding scale physical copies.

64 page workbook zine for care planning, exploring your needs, and creating ideas of support you could use in times of grief. Sliding scale physical copies.

32 page zine of questions to ask at your birth center or L&D unit tour to get the most out of your tour. Sliding scale physical copies.

32 page workbook zine with 13 categories of questions to explore yourself and your relationships. Sliding scale physical copies.

About Myles (they/he)

Hi, I’m Myles (they/he)! I am a trans nonbinary, queer, mixed Black and white, and neurodivergent writer, artist, and care companion based in the Bay Area. I am in awe of the way humans change, stretch, grow, collapse, gather, grieve, and become. I believe deeply in the power of community care as a salve to the systems of oppression we continuously survive.

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